Hi,

I am a Transsexual, welcome to my pages.

Some people have a problem with girls like us so if you have a problem it's yours to keep as I don't have any problem with me.

I'm in my mid fifties now but still try to keep myself looking as nice as possible.  How we appear to others is I believe not just a question of age - it's also a lot to do with if we retain a mental youthfulness and of course our current frame of mind.

Me? - well I have never subscribed to the idea that when one passes forty we should commence enrolment into the B.O.F. club (Boring Old Fart's club) -

My height is 5'10", I'm a size 14 and am trying to stay that way.

Within the area of Transsexual people one of my personal aims is to be as helpful as possible with those that feel that they are of a similar disposition and need to talk privately to someone.  I've been around in the T Girl world for a good few years now and although I certainly don't think that I'm the definitive expert, what I cannot assist with - I always know someone who can.

I had it seems quite a good education but did not appreciate that until some years after I left school.

Although I knew from quite a young age I was somehow different like many other TS's a combination of upbringing, cultural programming and peer group pressures were not conducive to understanding what was going on inside my head.

I recall quite clearly how I felt when in the showers with the boys after PE - I just simply didn't want to be there.  While many of the other boys were running around waving their 'bit's' about I wanted to hide myself in the corner somewhere.

Contrary to what some people may think - even within our own circles, we are not some definitive article in the 'Black or White' sort of way.

Over time, I have met many other girls like myself and amongst those who are honest about there past, upbringing, aspirations and such, there is a fair mixture of differences.

There are so many things that I could write here on that subject but for now I will try to keep these pages light, informative and hopefully pleasant to read and view.

If anyone has the need to ask anything of a sensible nature than please feel free to contact me but please note that I am a Transsexual not a TV and by virtue of that live a female lifestyle.

There is an Email link on my 'Contact Me' page.

I live in the South East corner of the UK.

Male admirers can by all means contact me as long as the mails are polite and are a little more informative than just one line.

Barbara